- Never force feed. This will only make your little one less likely to accept new foods.
- Trust your little one’s internal cues. From weaning to toddler teatimes, your little one is gaining autonomy which you should let them express. Parents can worsen fussy eating by encouraging toddlers to eat more than they need. They are more in tune with their hunger cues than we are, so capitalise on that and let them determine how much they’ll eat.
- You’re the mirror image. Remember that seeing you and your family eating is an integral part to you little one overcoming their fussy habits, so if there is a food they won’t eat include it in the meal and let them see you and your family enjoying it.
- Keep structured meal and snack times. Ideally this means three meals and two snacks a day, sat together in a comfortable, relaxed environment. Even if your little one refuses to eat anything, it’s important that they see the rest of the family eat at the expected times.
- Forget ‘finish your plate’. Meal and snack times should be the same duration every time. This sets expectations and means that eating isn’t about finishing your plate, but instead it’s about enjoying the time you sit together and whatever isn’t eaten in that time gets taken away.
- Don’t draw attention to it. Whatever your little one’s likes and dislikes, try not to focus on it. Eating as a family is about more than just finishing what’s on your plate. Try to enjoy the time together and not give the fussy eating centre stage.
- Don’t use food as a reward. If you’re little one has eaten something new, reward them with your attention and words.
- Respect your little one’s preferences. They have different sensory experiences to foods as you, some children love cold foods others hate crunchy foods. It might be helpful to keep a food diary to identify any similarities between the foods being accepted and / or refused. If you see a pattern, try some to add a new food that meets the charactersitics you’ve identified.
- Tone down, don’t conceal. If you hide refused veggies in other foods, not only do you not accustom your little one to the flavour but if they realise they may feel tricked and become even more resistant. Instead, tone down flavours using herbs, spices or less intense measures, such as cauliflower cheese or broccoli.
- Enjoy food! Involve your little one in the shopping, preparation and cooking of food.
UK guidelines recommend starting to wean when your baby is around 6 months old, and no earlier than 17 weeks old. At this age, your baby’s digestive system, kidneys and nerves (which all play an important role) should have developed enough for them to start with solid foods.
Every baby is different, so it’s important to be familiar with the signs of readiness that mean they’re developmentally ready. These include:
- Sitting up and holding their head up with limited support
- Showing interest in your food and reaching for it
- Allowing you to put a spoon in their mouth without them spitting it back out
There are some other behaviours that can be mistaken for readiness, such as your baby being hungrier, putting their fist in their mouth, or waking in the night, but these are simply a sign of growth and teething.
As always, if you’re unsure, speak to your health care practitioner for help and advice.
Weaning is when your baby is ready to start on solid foods, usually at around 6 months of age and no earlier than 4 months. It’s sometimes called ‘complementary feeding’, as it complements breast milk or infant formula to provide additional nutrients and diversity.
Up until this point, milk has been nutritionally sufficient, as your baby has stores of the nutrients it doesn’t provide. However, these stores are getting used up, so it’s time to think about which foods can best provide these missing pieces… like iron!
As well as being nutritionally important, weaning is also important for your baby’s physical and mental development. Motor skills and coordination will develop with the introduction of solids (working out just how to get that food into their mouth!), and chewing uses the same muscles required for speech.
Whilst suckling and sucking are inherent behaviours, munching and chewing are actually learned behaviours that require exposure to different types of textures to develop!
Since munching is possible from around 4 months and chewing from around 7 months, the textures of foods introduced at these stages are different. It’s necessary to remember, however, that the ages advised are averages and every baby is different!
This post was originally written for Mia & Ben
First things first, use only open or free-flow cups when giving your little one a drink to protect their teeth.
In terms of what should go into that cup, from 6-12 months only water and breast milk or infant formula should be offered with or between meals. Other options, such as fizzy drinks, flavoured milks, fruit juices and smoothies, have a high sugar content and risk causing tooth decay.
It’s important to note that ‘Follow-on’ formula is not necessary if you’re weaning well, as the nutrients that it is fortified with your baby will now be getting from solid foods. If you are using infant formula rather than breastmilk it might be that you need to supplement this with water in hotter months (breastmilk will adapt to ensure the water content is sufficient).
Whilst only breast milk, infant formula or water are appropriate drinks, full fat cow’s, goat’s or sheep’s milk can be used in cooking. It is just advised that milk alternatives – soya, almond, oat, coconut etc. – are avoided until 1 year unless you’re advised to use plant-based alternatives by a healthcare professional eg. if your little one has cow’s milk protein allergy.
At 1-year, when your baby should be getting the majority of their nutritional needs from food, whole cow’s milk can be introduced as a drink and/or breastmilk continued. Unsweetened, fortified milk alternatives can also be offered as drinks now and infant formula is no longer necessary. However, rice milk is an exception to the other plant-based milks and should not be introduced until age 5.
This blog was originally written for Mia & Ben